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[rani]

Josoo,

Really sorry too. Keep your spirits up and don't forget we're thinking of you. If you need to talk, we're here for you.

:bighug

 

[mintycat]

I am so sorry to hear that, josoo. We are all here for you if you want to talk. I will be thinking of you. You have a positive outlook and you sound like a strong person. (((HUGS)))

 

[josoo]

Thanks for the nice words. No matter what happens, I'll try to maintain an upbeat attitude, because I have a lot of worried friends/relatives and I don't want them to be sad either.

Venting on this forum definitely helps, because the pain inside never really heals, and you never really forget. But you try your best to move on.

I'm in and out of work this week and I'm sure will burst out crying at some stage. I did that a few times today and I don't think I've ever felt so much pain before. It's emotionally draining and my doctor tried to keep me relatively positive.

The positive thinking helps, but you can't fight nature, and you can't fight fate. You can't change destiny no matter what....so from now on I have to take it easy and let fate determine the next steps.

 

[joyofliving]

Josoo, I feel your pain. If there is anything I can do to make you feel better please let me know and I do mean it sweetie. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. My prayers are with you. Take care of yourself.

 

[reei]

today my period came and I bought a gift for myself to make myself feel better. thinking of what to buy next month when period comes..
getting pregnant is so difficult.. so disappointed.
need a break, need a short holiday..

 

[TTC#2]

Josoo - am really sorry for your loss. {hugs}

MayC - what a beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing it with us.

Reei - i was really hoping this would be your month. hang in there. :grouphug:

:gl: to all who are still trying. Hubby and I did a lot of jumping this weekend. The dreaded waiting begins....

 

[MickeyMom]

Hi everyone,
I had my first consultation with Dr. Derek Lo yesterday and I am very pleased with how it turned out. He made me and my husband feel both proactive and positive about the whole thing. He had my husband checked (in a different clinic), and I did an internal ultrasound (to check for PCOS). Since I'm in the tail end of my cycle, he can't do the Xray as we cannot rule out pregnancy yet. So, I have to call them once i get my period and we will arrange for follow-up tests. He thinks I have PCOS but will check for the "cysts" after my period as he says they come and go. He wants to do an Xray so that he can rule out "blocked tubes".

All in all, I feel very confident with him. My hubby feels the same. He exudes confidence without feeling like he is imposing.

Thanks Rani for the reco!

 

[MickeyMom]

Oh... he also did not charge for the Ultrasound. I just paid $600 for consultation. With my previous doctor, he would charge for both consultation and ultrasound.

I like his assistant nurse too. Very gentle and accomodating.

Only downside is they only accept CASH or CHEQUE, so will always need to ask ahead how much need to be prepared as I don't have cheques.

 

[rani]

MickeyMom
Thanks for the update. Glad the appointment went well and you liked Dr Lo. Now we need to send you some babydust and make sure your period stays away this week.

MayC, How are you doing?

Reei, How are you? TTC can be very stressful and we can be so hard on ourselves. A holiday sounds like a good idea.

:grouphug: to all!

 

[TTC#2]

MayC - I was praying this would be your month. I'm really sorry. :bighug

I don't think i am lucky either. Have PMS cramps. My period is due at the end of the week. :sad: