Rant: hubby cant watch baby for even half hour!

[purple1]

er...all the "great husband" stories aren't really helping. Can someone pls start another thread on perfect husband so I can avoid reading those?
I love my husband and I accept his flaws. Just that sometimes, some of the things got to me and I just wanted to spill it out to hopefully sympathetic ears but unfortunately got opposite effect....

 

[carang]

of course you have sympathetic ears. it's just hearing some stories make us really appreciate what we have!

there's not much we can say except, sorry that your husband doesn't contribute as much as you'd like to raising/caring for your children.

there isn't much advice we can offer...

but of course, this is a great place to vent! i'm sorry that we made you feel worse. of course, our hubbies are not perfect. please dont' think so! cause if just ain't so!

 

[thanka2]

Just want to add that if you want to know about my husband's imperfections, go back and read some of my previous posts over the past 2+ years. The man is not perfect--which goes without saying. But, to be fair, I did side with you in that I think that the way you described your husband's behavior--well, I just wouldn't tolerate that with my husband--it would be a deal-breaker for me. But, then you replied that you knew he was this way when you married him and essentially...."well...I guess it's okay..." So, hmmm....don't know where you're going with all this. I guess a rant is just a rant, though. Hope, for your own sake that things will get resolved or get better so you can feel better. I think we're all on your side here--at least I am.

 

[purple1]

I think one solution is to hire part time baby sitter on helper day off. I saw some recent posts on baby sitting services/agents will give them a try.