Hello All,
I just had someone PM me regarding how it all went at QEH so thought I had better put up my experience.
To be brief, all went well....
To be more specific....
I was thankful this wasn't my first baby as QEH provides a safe, delivery baby service & that is it!
We arrived at the hospital & I was told I was only 2cm dilated & sent to the labour monitoring ward (no husbands allowed). Being my 3rd babe, I was pretty sure I was further along than that...so after being forced to lie down with a foetal monitoring unit on for half an hour they then rushed me back upstairs to the labour delivery ward as I was 10cm. Again I was forced to lie down even though I had been labouring really well at home for 4 hours by showering & walking thru contractions.
My husband was not allowed with me until I was in the actual delivery suite for about half an hour. And we were pretty lucky that he was allowed in at all. There were signs saying that if it was really busy, your husband may not be allowed in. Up until this time every nurse I had contact with would ask/tell me (!!) I needed an epesiotomy. I refused as I didn't tear with my previous deliveries & I was aware that HK public hospitals had one of the highest epesiotomy rates in the world at about 85%!
The 2 midwives we had for the actual delivery were great & after asking if I wanted an epesiotomy they were happy to allow time for stretching. Lucky they were great, as I never got the requested epidural due to there being no anaesthetist & the quick labour. I had been told in one of my ante-natal check-ups that you have to time your labour really well to get an epidural - 8am in the morning is the best! Bit hard to time these things though.
The delivery went smoothly & really was no different to my experience in Australia. Immediate skin to skin contact & breast feeding are promoted. A paediatrician comes around & checks out the baby after the delivery. The nurses also take a picture of you with the baby which is a lovely touch.
A number of hours later we went up to the wards. Our baby was briskly taken away before we knew it for his first bath.... without either of us!! We were sad about that. Also as it was not visiting hours, so my husband could only stay for 10 mins to settle me in- really tough after such a momentous experience. The baby rooms in with you & again, the nurses promote the baby sleeping on your chest (skin to skin contact). There is a crib for the baby so you don't have to do this.
The actual room you are in is shared with 5 others but the rooms are almost open plan & I guess there are another 5 or so rooms. Consequently with about 30 women & their babies it is quite noisy. They also keep lights on all night so sleep is difficult. The nurses speak quite good English & are efficient. They insisted on making me wee into a bed pan the 1st time I needed to pass urine. I could easily have walked to the toilet but as I knew I wanted an early discharge I thought I had better pick my battles!!! ;-)
Unlike Australia, there is no tray of sandwiches brought to you after labour. And I was starving! I had packed some snacks (biscuits) but I would have loved something more substantial.
Breakfast was congee which I can't even look at let alone eat so I was super hungry. They do give you hot water to drink.
I asked for early discharge as it was so boring & noisy at the hospital. The doctor & the paediatrician both came around & then we were able to go home after signing early discharge forms.
So we arrived at the hospital at 4pm. Had the baby by 7pm. Were in the room about 10pm & on my way home at midday the next day.
That being said, I had a natural delivery with no tearing or complications & being my 3rd baby knew what to do. Plus I have a helper at home & yummy food & a glass of wine!!
I called in a midwife from Annerley midwives for a 3 day checkup on our baby too (I guess you would normally still be at the hospital at that point).
Our hospital experience cost us $150 so definitely no complaints about that.
Another thing I did was take too many clothes, etc. They get you into pj's straight away & your babe will be in hospital clothes too(they provided the blankets for the baby so you don't need that either). You really just need nappies, wipes, going home clothes for you & the babe, toiletries, underwear, maternity pads & food! Oh & I took in my own Panadol for after birth tenderness. So I didn't need the pads with bandage (?), the antiseptic, bowl that they tell you to bring.
Hope that helps with anybody considering QEH. Because of the early discharge I can't tell you whether it gets chaotic or not at visiting hours. I would also recommend taking an iPad as it is really boring in there!