I had a similar experience with my second one. She had jaundice and the nurses suggested that it would be easier to flush the jaundice out if she took formula, but never did I feel pressured by them to give formula. With the exception of night time feeding, I was at the hospital as much as I could so that I could directly breastfeed. After each feeding session, I would still pump and hand over whatever expressed milk I got. At home, I pumped and then brought to the hospital the expressed milk for their use for night time feeding. I gave strict instructions that she was not to be given formula unless my expressed milk was not enough (for the night time feeds at the hospital). She did have a few bottles of formula during this time. It was a tough, long road for us as her bilirubin levels got so high that they actually took blood from me just in case she might need a transfusion. It took many weeks before she was jaundice-free and it was a tough ride, but I'm really glad we stuck it out with the breastfeeding during that time, as it helped to get it properly established --i.e., the latch issues, etc. Being at the hospital to feed directly during that time also allowed me to get support from their lactation specialists (who were really great --at Pamela Youde). I also got plenty of support at home and was not feel pressured to give her formula...and that helped tremendously.
I wish you guys all the best with breastfeeding during this time. Please know that giving formula does not make you bad parents, especially if it might ease the stress during this period. One of the doctors at an antenatal class that we attended declared that he doesn't believe in nipple confusion. I tend to agree as both my children --esp. my first one, --have had both formula and breast milk and I managed to breastfeed until at least 18 months.
I wish you guys all the best with breastfeeding during this time. Please know that giving formula does not make you bad parents, especially if it might ease the stress during this period. One of the doctors at an antenatal class that we attended declared that he doesn't believe in nipple confusion. I tend to agree as both my children --esp. my first one, --have had both formula and breast milk and I managed to breastfeed until at least 18 months.