HI Cupcakes
I did all of the above except the lingerie... a waste of time really!!! ..
.... seriously....
I too have not been so good to my body, .... (eating disorder)
So here is my list when I planned for pregnancy..
Full Dr. Check up:
Pap Smear,
Breast Check,
Blood test for: measles/mumps/rubella/chicken pox/tetanus,HIV, HEP, (Your Dr, will know what to test for)
Asthma management,
Folic Acid supplement
Iodine/calcium/B6/Zinc Supplement
Managed my diet with my Dr, - ate more nutrient dense foods,
Had blood pressure taken/diabetes tested,
Talked to my psychiatrist about it....
Double checked my psyc. meds....
Started doing more exercise
Talked to my Dr about my reproductive history/
You may want genetic testing?
I made all these changes about 3 months before we actually began trying.....
For some, it is not just a case of telling your partner that you would like to have a baby.....
I really wish you and your partner all the best!
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