Home remodeling... yes or no?
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Shenzhennifer
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Actually I avoided cats like the plague while I was pregnant. What is it called, toxioplasmosis? Cats carry it and you can transmit it to your unborn baby. Normally I love cats but was too paranoid during my pregnancy
You are right, only from the litter, but the risks are lower if your cats stay at home. Just let that job to your husband... Actually you can also get it from the soil, plants or vegetables which could have got dirty by some fecal matter.
You can also have a blood test and check if you are immunised. There are many chances you are already if you have cats for a long time.
You can also have a blood test and check if you are immunised. There are many chances you are already if you have cats for a long time.
Shenzhennifer
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Yes, but cats are constantly grooming themselves...if you know what I mean, then they lick you. Yuck.
Shenzhennifer
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Haha, actually I adore cats, always have. It`s just once I got pregnant I saw things differently. Now I don`t care about cats so much. My son is toooooo cute.
(who says I let my hubby kiss me?
(who says I let my hubby kiss me?
I was in exactly the same situation, but the no hammering, or being around renovation works warning came from my in laws. First things first, my father in law is a fung shui expert and he said moving was fine (not ideal but ok) but I cannot be present whilst renovation works were taking place and I could not be there when they were doing the actual moving in. So I think you can tell your parents that, it's not a blind "stay put and not move" rule.
I am chinese but was not brought up on such beliefs and think it's complete rubbish. Like you, my husband luckily does not believe it either, despite being brought up on it. So I simply obediently told my inlaws that I would not be present whilst renovations were taking place, but I went to check when I needed to and of course, never told them about it and when asked, blatantly lied. Afterall, my husband was not going to take holiday just to oversee curtain rails being put up. That way my inlaws had peace of mind and I still got things done. I also told my helper not to tell my inlaws, just in case they asked her.
To ease your mind, my daughter has no deformities whatsoever, in fact, she was carried full term, walked at 8 months, talked early, toilet trained at 17 months and just started ice skating at 2 years 3 months. Hope that helps
I am chinese but was not brought up on such beliefs and think it's complete rubbish. Like you, my husband luckily does not believe it either, despite being brought up on it. So I simply obediently told my inlaws that I would not be present whilst renovations were taking place, but I went to check when I needed to and of course, never told them about it and when asked, blatantly lied. Afterall, my husband was not going to take holiday just to oversee curtain rails being put up. That way my inlaws had peace of mind and I still got things done. I also told my helper not to tell my inlaws, just in case they asked her.
To ease your mind, my daughter has no deformities whatsoever, in fact, she was carried full term, walked at 8 months, talked early, toilet trained at 17 months and just started ice skating at 2 years 3 months. Hope that helps
canadienne
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Yes, definitely don't touch the cat litter, and try in general not to touch the cats!
Why don't you compromise? Sell off some old furniture and bring in some new without doing any major structural renovations.
One thing I don't understand is how this can be more stressful to the baby when she is in the womb (and can't hear it very well). Really, noise and moving around a lot are far more stressful to babies when they are out of the womb. I think for the protection of your baby it's best to do things while she is still in the safest place: your womb!
Why don't you compromise? Sell off some old furniture and bring in some new without doing any major structural renovations.
One thing I don't understand is how this can be more stressful to the baby when she is in the womb (and can't hear it very well). Really, noise and moving around a lot are far more stressful to babies when they are out of the womb. I think for the protection of your baby it's best to do things while she is still in the safest place: your womb!
Gataloca
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Thanks for everybody advices. For everybody peace of mind, I think I will not do any renovation for now. I don't think there is any relationship between doing renovation, and baby deformity, but when people want to blame you for something, they will always be able to find a reason... As someone said, a scar on the baby chin, a mole on the face, etc., and you will be reminded forever for not having followed the advice.
I think I am just going to rent a storage room, and put there all the stuff we don't need. Clean up the closet, and but some plastic storage cases to put our clothes there.
If everything get sort out, then probably we will not be in any hurry to do any remodeling job for a while.... Probably later when the baby is a little bit bigger, or probably we would be able to afford a new place, if the apartment prices go down....
I think I am just going to rent a storage room, and put there all the stuff we don't need. Clean up the closet, and but some plastic storage cases to put our clothes there.
If everything get sort out, then probably we will not be in any hurry to do any remodeling job for a while.... Probably later when the baby is a little bit bigger, or probably we would be able to afford a new place, if the apartment prices go down....