Helpers & Crowded Places
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No way! I saw this on the news last night and could not believe it.
brainleacher
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I don't think it is the right thing to do to ask our helpers to avoid crowded places because of the swine flu. However, I suggested my helper that she takes a mask or two along on Sundays and I also provided her with a little flasks of hand cleaning lotion. And my helper totally agrees, because she has no desire to get sick either and you can be at ease that she will not pass anything on to you/your family.
I think it is right to ask your helper to stay away from crowded places during this swine flu - they have closed another secondary school in Wan Chai now and I think all other secondary schools will close before the end of the academic year.
If your helper goes out and catches this flu and then returns to work you are putting yourself and your children at risk.
A friend of mine has asked her helper not to leave the house as she is affraid her new born baby is at risk.
If your helper goes out and catches this flu and then returns to work you are putting yourself and your children at risk.
A friend of mine has asked her helper not to leave the house as she is affraid her new born baby is at risk.
audlin
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My personal opinion is that anybody is at risk. Your husband could travel on business and bring it back, or you could be shopping with your baby in Central and pick up the bug.
I think it is out of order to ask your helper to avoid crowded places on her only day off when that is most probably where all her friends gather. Yes, you can arm her with a mask or wipes but you are taking it a step to far to ask her to do anything else.
I have two children under 2 and not concerned. They could catch it off me or just sitting in Starbucks or on the MTR.
I think it is out of order to ask your helper to avoid crowded places on her only day off when that is most probably where all her friends gather. Yes, you can arm her with a mask or wipes but you are taking it a step to far to ask her to do anything else.
I have two children under 2 and not concerned. They could catch it off me or just sitting in Starbucks or on the MTR.
I'm concerned but not quite ready to ask my helper to avoid big crowds. I did think of telling her that if she wanted to hang out with a friend or two at our house she could. I have a 3 month old and two other young children (3 and 2) and am worried as they get sick so easily here.
Our helper is smart and very aware of the situation so hopefully she will minimise the risks without me telling her.
I don't think comparing helper's gatherings on sundays to any other situation in HK (like husband going to work etc) is a logical comparison. My husband certainly doesn't share his food, sit really close to others for long periods of time (if any!) etc. You just have to walk through central on a sunday to realise how perfect a place it is for spreading infection. These poor women are forced to spend their day in small very very crowded public spaces. I'd be surprised if helpers don't turn out to be one of the worst hit by the flu. Not good for them or our children!
Our helper is smart and very aware of the situation so hopefully she will minimise the risks without me telling her.
I don't think comparing helper's gatherings on sundays to any other situation in HK (like husband going to work etc) is a logical comparison. My husband certainly doesn't share his food, sit really close to others for long periods of time (if any!) etc. You just have to walk through central on a sunday to realise how perfect a place it is for spreading infection. These poor women are forced to spend their day in small very very crowded public spaces. I'd be surprised if helpers don't turn out to be one of the worst hit by the flu. Not good for them or our children!
0ze_Kid
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I don't think I would ask my helper to avoid crowed places either.
As audlin said, DH could bring it (mine works in confined spaces and travels a lot by air, so sorry aussiegal I have to disagree. Yes, it does get crowded but not EVERY helper goes into central, mine, for example used to go hiking and take picnics with a few of her friends and then go night clubbing). As a side, we are currently in Melbourne with 1,000+ (10-fold HK count) cases and we are still going to the zoo, snow and other public places with the kids.
blumenelf - I like your thinking; by having a discussion and providing items I think you have gone about it in a really smart way. I will have to remember this for when we get back.
As audlin said, DH could bring it (mine works in confined spaces and travels a lot by air, so sorry aussiegal I have to disagree. Yes, it does get crowded but not EVERY helper goes into central, mine, for example used to go hiking and take picnics with a few of her friends and then go night clubbing). As a side, we are currently in Melbourne with 1,000+ (10-fold HK count) cases and we are still going to the zoo, snow and other public places with the kids.
blumenelf - I like your thinking; by having a discussion and providing items I think you have gone about it in a really smart way. I will have to remember this for when we get back.
I have asked my helper to avoid going to crowded places with poor ventilation. If she wants to go, just take precautions like wash hands often and wear mask etc. go to the park instead if weather permits. I have explained to her that we (me and my husband) in fact have higher risks of getting the virus because we go out everyday to work so we just have to be more careful. I think it sounds fair enough.
As long as we tell and explain to our DH nicely, don't sound too harsh like an order, show we care about them, I think they will appreciate that.
As long as we tell and explain to our DH nicely, don't sound too harsh like an order, show we care about them, I think they will appreciate that.
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Totally agree, aussiegal. I saw it a couple of times and was horrified by the scene. Like yours, my helper is also pretty smart and is afraid of the bug herself. I had never asked her where to go or not to go, but she has out of her own accord moved to a less crowded place with her best friend...
I personally don't think it's such a big deal in 'asking to avoid crowded places', as long as not 'forbidding to go to crowded places' or 'forcing her not to go etc', which may be seen as trying to restrict one's freedom or freewill...As I've learned, swine flu is causing so much fear not because of its fatality rate, but rather because human beings are not immuned to this bug, and the young ones are particularly at risk...My DD is suffering from a common cold right now and we just came back from the doctor's to get her cleared of the possibility of swine flu. Yes a little paranoid I know, but this is what I do for being a parent---better be safe than sorry. So I'd rather not focus too much on a possibly human right issue. Aren't we all trying to take some measures necessary to prevent from catching this bug? In my household for example, hubby will not touch the kids when coming back from work without first taking a shower and brushing his teeth etc.