hi all, thanks for the good advice. I have been down with a terrible flu, gotten from the little one and i feel so bad for him as I can only imagine how much worse he must feel!
anyway, I spoke to hubby and yes voiced my unhappiness- primarily more that he is so dismissive and yes I am not good with uncertainty.... we have decided to apply for a few kindergartens here and in sg (double application forms and fees, what fun) and just cross our fingers that things work out.
its been so nice to have different perspectives, i wish i was better at dealing with uncertainty but this has actually been a blessing as I know now what it is I really what for my son. Previously i just assumed certain things (husband's job being the key ) but have come to realise that I am my child's advocate and i better decide whats impt to us.
anyway, still nursing this damm flu that just wont go away and catching up on the posts here!
anyway, I spoke to hubby and yes voiced my unhappiness- primarily more that he is so dismissive and yes I am not good with uncertainty.... we have decided to apply for a few kindergartens here and in sg (double application forms and fees, what fun) and just cross our fingers that things work out.
its been so nice to have different perspectives, i wish i was better at dealing with uncertainty but this has actually been a blessing as I know now what it is I really what for my son. Previously i just assumed certain things (husband's job being the key ) but have come to realise that I am my child's advocate and i better decide whats impt to us.
anyway, still nursing this damm flu that just wont go away and catching up on the posts here!