Hi Jcg. Had the second scan on Friday - as expected, there was no heart beat... it doesn't matter how much the doc prepares you, there is still that little bit of hope that you hold on to and fight for... I had officially miscarried at 7wks 4 days.
looking back, I think there was a small part of me that was relieved - the thought of ongoing problems and risks to the baby related to low heart rate (which are in the high % for a low rate of under 70bpm), or a later stage miscarriage would have been unbearable and far more traumatic.
enjoy your pregnancies and babies girls! they are a blessing and a priviledge