Babyblue#1, don't worry, it's sooo normal. Our hormones make us a little crazy. I was always feeling insecure during my first pregnancy and this time a little bit too when my husband is even out for the night...it's weird, but normal...I was not an insecure. We are trying to provide the best future for our unborn bubs so it's natural for us to be even more protective of having our partner around. My husband found the Expectant Father a really good read and it explains their and our emotional and physical changes during pregnancy. The flu sounds horrible!!!! Did you get the flu shot? My doctor recommended it this time, but I didn't get it last time...so not sure f I want it or not. I have a cold right now but it's not so bad right now.