Anyone given birth at Queen Mary?

Hubba Bubba

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Just changed jobs and found out I was pregant a week after signing the contract - oops! My company medical no longer covers maternity and no insurer will cover the delivery costs under a new policy because I am already pregnant. Seems our only choice it to give birth at Queen Mary. Can anyone share their experience of their pre-natal program and the actual experience. Any tips I should be aware of, questions I should ask, things to watch out for, what the cost is, by when do I need to register, etc? Seems most threads talk about comparing the privates but I need to know about the piblic system!
 
hey hubba bubba!
congratualtions!

if you do a search using queen mary, i'm sure you'll find a load of information...i know in the past, i've probably contributed to about 10 or so different threads regarding QMH.

i'll be there too, feb-march of next year!
 
Yeah, and have a look in the pregnancy section of this forum where there are some recent and active threads.

Re costs, these are changing all the time, because the public system are strapped for cash, so they are gradually charging for more things, such as Downs screening which used to be free. So the most recent posts will be more accurate on costs. As of 7wks ago when I gave birth at QMH, my bill was only $150! ($100 per additional night stayed at the hospital.)

Congratulations too!
 
Hello,

I'm moving to HK in December and I aslo have to go to the QMH to give birth in February/March as i'm not insured for that part. I heard that man are not allowed to be with you when you give birth. Does anyone know if that's true or not?
 
Men are allowed to attend births at Queen Mary (both vaginal and c-section), but there is conflicting info as to when they are allowed. Some people say that the man has to show proof that he has attended antenatal classes in order to be allowed in, while others say this requirement is silly and that they will demand to be present. I did take a tour of QMH recently, but didn't ask about this as we are taking antenatal classes. Your best bet is to call QMH directly and ask : 2855-3838 (although, based on my experiences in HK, answers tend to vary from person to person within the same organization!)
 
when i delivered there 18 months ago,my hubby was not allowed in for delivery because it was an "emergency c-section" but generally they are allowed as far as i know.
 
I had my first (and only!) baby in QMH. It was fine. My husband was with me the entire time, though that was a vaginal birth, I'm not sure about c-section. I've heard people say be bossy and firm to get what you want, if they try to tell you not to do a particular thing, like keep hubby out of the ward while you're in labour.

I felt very well taken care of at QMH. My negatives would be:

- Poor breastfeeding support. If you want to breastfeed, get your info before you go and make sure you have some good contacts you can call for support, like the La Leche League.

- Routine episiotomies. They love to cut!

- Little flexibility in terms of birthing positions. They are only trained to deliver in one position - the half lying/half sitting position.

Hope that helps. I would happily have another baby there. I'm from Oz.
 
Ok, just re-read your questions, I didn't really answer them!

Here's how to register etc:

- Look up the number for Tsan Yuk hospital which is the associated hospital through which QMH does all their antenatal stuff. Tell them you want to book in to their ante natal program. That will start the process.

- The cost is pretty much free throughout the whole 9 months, with few charges for things like ultrasound, and the hospital stay but it's only about $300-$500 in total.

- Antenatal classes are good, we found them really helpful as first time parents. The English is reasonable and you can ask questions etc.

- Be prepared to be a 'number'. Just accept that from the beginning and it will be easier. You aren't going to get a lot of nice personal service, you will feel like you're on a conveyor belt, you won't get to know your doctor like people who go private.

- There is a LOT of waiting around in the antenatal appointments. Accept that and show up 15 mins early for each one to maximise your chance of getting top of the list and less waiting time. But often an appointment can take 2 hours in the public system because of all the waiting.

- Be proactive in asking questions. They don't really have a tendency to disclose things, so ask, ask, ask.

- The food in the hospital is not that nice, if you're used to Western food. But that's a small point! And who really feels like eating a four course meal after they've given birth anyway.

- Bedside manner and language problems are another issue. It's hard to just 'chat' with a nurse or doctor when they are restricted by language, so you tend to have a few frustrations of communication. Another reason to perservere and be proactive in asking your questions as they won't volunteer.

HTH again!
 
Hi Ladies,

I have been going through the Tsan Yuk Hospital in preparation for a Queen Mary Delivery and I have just finished all my antenatal physio exercise classes. Each session is $60 HKD each except the first lession which is $100 HKD.There is a total of 5 sessions:

1. Antenatal Exercises
2. Relaxation & Mental Strategies
3. Brith Ball in Labour
4. Comfort Measures (Hubby must attend)
5. Pushing Technique (Hubby must attend)

Your husband must attend the 4th and 5th classes in order to be present at the birth according to the Physio ladies at the Tsan Yuk. I have heard that you can get away with just being strong willed and demanding hubby to be present on the day but if you want to go by the rules, you first ask the doctor to have a reference to the Physio exercises and attend every class.

I actually missed the 4th class however I don't recommend you missing any (especially 4 and 5) as I then had to find a private physio to complete the class and get a reference letter. These guys cost $250 per hour.

Overall, they are good classes and worthwhile doing.

Happy preparations

China Doll
 

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