Hi seaprincess and snagito,
Thanks so much for posting in such detail. I really appreciate you both taking the time to do so.
seaprincess - The distance to the schools is one of my main concerns. My daughter is just turning 5 towards the end of August - I can't imagine putting her on a bus for 30 minutes one way to school every morning. My husband has been living in Stanley since January. His opinion is that the Stanley/Tai Tam area is a much better lifestyle choice for us with young children and, unless I can make a strong argument against it, he would like to stay there. He is not interested in living in PokFuLam or MidLevels to be closer to HKA, although I've suggested it - I'm up for living near whatever schools the girls end up attending - he feels strongly about living somewhere that he deems very conducive to families with young kids. I've only visited Hong Kong years ago when we were young and childless...so from where I sit I don't have much ammunition!
With that said, I am nervous about the trip for my soon-to-be 5-year-old from the south side of the island up to Kennedy Town if we do enroll her in HKA. HKIS seems to be the simpler choice for us as she would be closer so I would be more comfortable about that. However, I've heard from several parents that the academics are somewhat lacking there, even at the young ages - that many kids miss school quite frequently so a lot of time is spent catching up during class time whereas the kids that don't miss frequently are doing a lot of repeat work. Honestly, my head is spinning with the stories that I'm hearing and it's difficult to separate the wheat from the shaft, so to speak. My daughter is in a gifted pre-school now - it's a warm and encouraging environment, nothing high pressure at all, but a wonderful environment for an extremely inquisitive child of her age and abilities...she is engaged, happy, silly and looks forward to going to school every day...and soaking up new info like a sponge. I am nervous about HKIS in this regard...so many posts say that it is too focused on play. I do think play is crucial at young ages, but I also know what kids these ages are capable of. If we are only there the planned 2 to 4 years, I don't want her to come back and be academically behind her peers in the US, especially since where she is now is about a year ahead.
snagito - I think my daughter is in the R2 class so it's full day, correct? I can't keep the schools straight! I'm not sure what the schedule is.
On another note, I also have a bit of apprehension about the religious aspect of HKIS. I've read/heard stories from both the positive and negative sides. When I questioned the school about what was taught to the primary school kids regarding religion, the answer I received was "age appropriate bible stories". I'm not anti-religious (we're Catholic) but I also would like a better idea of what exactly is being taught to my child...she's 4, not 14.
UGH! Will the school choice fairy just show up already and give me the right answer? LOL.
Thanks again for both of your input! If anyone else wants to weigh in, it's welcome.