I guess I have to give up. Many many thanks for all your feedbacks.
Yes, we are very attached to her. She is the perfect helper and most importantly she is an amazing person. The decision to move back to HK was very sudden and with a toddler and a newborn I was counting on the help of someone I trust. Plus I underestimated the immigration issue and we already made a lot of plans with her.. She was counting on it. Luckily, on my side, in HK is not that hard to find a good domestic helper. A Mandarin tutor is something I will consider but it sounds a bit forced to have someone teaching Mandarin to such a small kid. Playing with a Mandarin speaking helper is just playing, seeing a tutor is more like studying and I don't like to put such a pressure on a toddler.. but I guess there are ways to make it fun. Maybe I will ask you all about that when the time comes. Now we need to find a place, a kindergarten ..and a maid of course!
Yes, we are very attached to her. She is the perfect helper and most importantly she is an amazing person. The decision to move back to HK was very sudden and with a toddler and a newborn I was counting on the help of someone I trust. Plus I underestimated the immigration issue and we already made a lot of plans with her.. She was counting on it. Luckily, on my side, in HK is not that hard to find a good domestic helper. A Mandarin tutor is something I will consider but it sounds a bit forced to have someone teaching Mandarin to such a small kid. Playing with a Mandarin speaking helper is just playing, seeing a tutor is more like studying and I don't like to put such a pressure on a toddler.. but I guess there are ways to make it fun. Maybe I will ask you all about that when the time comes. Now we need to find a place, a kindergarten ..and a maid of course!